The Real McCoys

Identity

2011-12-15T09:58:00.000-06:00

Yesterday (and this morning), Evelyn asked me, "Mommy, what's your name?" to which I responded quickly, "Mommy!"

Her question got me to thinking about how we all identify ourselves to one another in a given context. Ways in which I identify myself in no particular order:

Evelyn's mommy
Sarah Lewis
Sarah McCoy
Jake's wife
Shift supervisor/Panera employee
Jessie and Rachel's sister
Doug and Julie's daughter
Francine's granddaughter
God's child
Social work student
Former AmeriCorps member

The list could go on and on. I guess what I am trying to say is that how you identify yourself says a lot about the kind of person you are.

I know that some moms have a need to have a separate identity that is solely themselves and not "Mommy" in the slightest. I understand the need, some days I feel it more than others, but I have come to terms that no matter what activity I am participating in or where I go, "Mommy" will never leave my identity. This doesn't upset, anger, or frustrate me. This is what's called being a mom. No matter where I am, Evelyn is a part of my heart now, and that is why she is part of my first identity.

Source: bing.com via Sarah on Pinterest

I am not just Sarah McCoy. I am Mommy.

Thankful and Grateful

2011-11-30T10:20:00.001-06:00

While a little belated, I wanted to let everyone what a wonderful Thanksgiving we had! We spent the first part of it with my mom's side of the family and then headed over to the McCoys. We ate too much food and enjoyed each other's company, and then ended the night with the most terrible temper tantrum from our little lady. I am so thankful that we were able to see of all our family!

Here are some pictures of the fam.

This year I am thankful for:

My job. At times I am completely frustrated, but I love it nonetheless. I have a wonderful group of people that I spend time with 45 hours a week. The morning of Thanksgiving I spent three hours with these hams and I am grateful that I have three such awesome men as not only as bosses but as friends.

My seesters. Mom used to tell us that we should get along when we were little because one day my sisters would be my best friends. She was right. My sisters look past all the bad stuff that we used to put each other through as kids and now accept each other for the BFFs that we will always be. I would do anything for them, as I'm sure they would for me.

My parents. I would not be here without them.

My in-laws. Chris McCoy said it best. I don't dread seeing them, as the stereotype normally goes, but I enjoy spending time with all of them. In fact, I look forward to spending time with them. I am proud to share the McCoy name.

My husband. I don't understand why he loves me as much as he does, but I'm sure glad he does! No one else makes me laugh as much as Jake does. No one else makes me feel so loved, secure, and happy as he does (with the exception of my baby girl).

My daughter. Evelyn is my pride and joy. She is beautiful, loving, and all mine. I am so fortunate to have such a wonderful daughter. Being mommy isn't always the most glamorous job but it is the most important job I will ever have. She is my little miracle.

Hope all of you had a fantastic Thanksgiving! I am looking forward to all our Christmas festivities.

Love,

Sarah.

"L" is for the way you look at me.

2011-10-25T15:43:00.000-05:00

"O" is for the only one I see."V" is very, very extraordinary."E" is even more than anyone that you can adore.I love that word. "Adore." That is how I feel about my husband.

The picture was taken about two weeks after we started dating, and here it is four years later and I love him more than ever. Sarah = LUCKY GIRL.XOXO,Sarah Mae.

Week of Anniversaries

2011-10-02T21:20:00.000-05:00

September 29 was Rich and Laurie's 32 wedding anniversary! Jake and I are grateful to have such giving parents in our lives. I hope that we are able to be so giving, loving, and kind in another 31 years.

September 29 was also my 1 year anniversary with Panera, It's hard to believe that a year ago this week I was walking into a new job, unsure of myself and thinking that this would be just another paycheck. Turns out, I love my job and am proud to say I am a part of the Panera Bread Co. And it shows that with a little elbow grease and determination, you can do anything.

Jake celebrated his 31st birthday on Friday! We were so happy that the whole McCoy clan in to celebrate with us. Jake worked at both Bergner's and Panera that day so I helped his coworkers celebrate by bringing in loads of lemon cupcakes. Today everyone ate lunch together and spent the afternoon lazing around the house.

Here is the part where I get all mushy and embarass Jake: I love you, Jake McCoy. More than anything, with the exception of our beautiful daughter. I am so unbelievably grateful that God placed you in my life. You make every day worthwhile, and the two of us have this amazing little girl, who worships the ground you walk on. She adores her daddy as do I. As Evie would say, "Happy to you, Daddy." I hope that your birthday celebrations helped to show you how much your family loves and appreciates you. <3

Sunday in St, Louis

2011-09-22T13:10:00.000-05:00

Evie and I traveled with Rich and Laurie to visit StL for the day. Jessie and Chris recently moved into their new apartment, and we were fortunate enough to check it out! I took a walking tour with the Flip video, so Ginny and Jake could take a look. We all ate at Hodak's (yummy!). After we stuffed ourselves silly, Evie, Laurie, Jessie, and I all headed to the Magic House and spent most of the afternoon looking at all the cool stuff while the boys chilled with a couple of beers and a football game. Thanks to Jessie and Chris for having us. We had a blast! Love, Sarah <3

Giggling in Bed

2011-09-13T09:16:00.002-05:00

The best part of yesterday afternoon and this morning was the snuggle time I had with Jake and Evie. It was filled with comfort, love, and MAJOR giggles.

I love them so much, and I am definitely putting this in our "memory vault."

In my room...

2011-09-06T18:25:00.002-05:00

Trying to figure out what todo with our bedroom now that we have this enormous bed taking up the whole room...found some inteesting ideas on Pinterest that I LOVE!

Source: westelm.com via Sarah on Pinterest

Source: google.com via Sarah on Pinterest

Source: marieclaireidees.com via Sarah on Pinterest

Tomorrow I am going to have some adorable photos of Evie on picture day. Stay tuned!

XOXO,

Sarah

Bedknobs and Broomsticks

2011-08-30T22:06:00.003-05:00

Our anniversary was a success! We had brunch at the Sunrise Cafe, devouring our favorite pancakes and bacon. Jake did have to work at Bergner's for a little while, and after he got off work, we went out to dinner just the two of us.

I love to spend time alone with the hubs, whether it's a quiet meal out or just snuggling during a movie. I am never as content as when I am with Jake. He makes me feel like all is as it should be, and this sense of peace gives me such contentment.

Yesterday Evelyn and celebrated Laurie's birthday with some shepherd's pie and German chocolate cake (little bit of Irish and German yumminess!). I think her favorite part of coming over was spending time with Miss Evelyn. They are best buddies, and Evie cannot wait to hang out with Grammy.

Evie and I had the apartment to ourselves tonight so we decided to go "shopping" after dinner just to get out of our small space. We bought some scrapbooking paper so that Ev and I can work on her scrapbooking skills. Yes, you better believe my 2-year-old has a scrapbook! She loves it!

We are finishing up a Disney classic right now, so here is a clip that always makes the little one laugh and some pictures she chose to share with you today!

Love,

Sarah and Evelyn

Love Story

2011-08-27T19:57:00.003-05:00

I went to a party on a Friday night after I got off work at Steak 'n Shake, even though I was thinking about heading home instead. I asked myself, How could it hurt?

Most of the people at the party I knew. There was a group of guys standing around on the porch with their beers, yucking it up. I said hello to everyone as I walked up, and this guy introduced himself, "Hey, my name is Jake. I didn't catch your name..." Later in the evening, we sat and talked. And talked. And talked. And talked.

Something inside me clicked and I just knew that he was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Strange how an ordinary Friday night can change your life so much.

I love you, Jacob Michael. Our differences make us and our love stronger, and now that you are in my life, I don't know what I would do without you.

Happy anniversary.

Love, Sarah

Birthdays and Wedding Photos

2011-08-25T10:05:00.010-05:00

This past weekend we visited Ginny and Devin in Des Plaines for Ginny's 24th birthday! We drove up late afternoon Saturday and met them in Chicago for some dinner and walking time. We were happy to be able to spend the evening with the birthday girl!

On our way back to Des Plaines on the Metra, we encountered a frightfully rude man. I won't give all the gory details, but here's a tidbit: it started with Jessie asking to move his bag off an empty chair so she could sit down with Evie and it ended with Laurie, Jessie, and I all yelling at him.

On to more positive things! This week has been one of great reflection. One year ago, Jake and I were getting everything pulled together for the wedding and I was finishing up my job at AARP.

In an effort to get some of our Christmas presents done early, I was flipping through our wedding pictures and decided that I needed to post a few of my favorites for you since I haven't posted many wedding photos on this blog.

I hope you enjoy the photos and I hope you are having a wonderful week as well!

Love,
Sarah

Cute Overload

2011-08-23T18:45:00.003-05:00

Love adorable pictures of animals? Evie and I do! We went for a walk and saw some cute puppies along the way, so when we arrived home, we looked on one of your favorite new blogs for our cuteness fix! Check out www.cuteoverload.com to get a few chuckles.

Happy to be Alive

2011-08-17T09:20:00.002-05:00

It's true.

This week has been a little rough for us, but with a little perserverence, we shall move past it. One of my fellow managers at Panera reminded me yesterday that with a smile and hard work I can get through anything.

On the bright side, the last couple of mornings, Evie has gotten in bed with me to snuggle after she gets ready for the day. Her little snuggles melt my heart and make me realize these little moments are her way of showing me how much she loves and needs me.

These moments makes me grateful for having such a beautiful, stubborn little girl and such a fantastic, even more stubborn husband. Nothing in my life is more important than the two of them, and I hope that I am able to show them how much I love and need them.

This video is for the two loves of my life, without whom I would have a hard time getting up in the morning. I love you.

Out of the Mouths of Babes

2011-08-13T09:34:00.002-05:00

Evelyn has said a few things within the last couple of days that has made me laugh out loud and I needed to share them!

While wheeling Evie around the grocery store, we stopped to get some veggies. The man in front of us bent over to pick somehing up and he showed a little more than he care to...Evie yells, "Mommy, butt crack! I see BUUTCRACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

Yeterday we saw a girl who was wearing a tube top and a short skirt, and Ev said rather loudly, "Mommy! Naked! She's naked!"

I am going to start taking cues from Aunt Mae and Evelyn. Aunt Mae was not afraid to speak her mind and let you know how she felt. Evie doesn't have a censor button because she's 2-years-old.

I have never liked passive aggressive behavior, so now I am going to make a big effort to curb any of mine. If I am mad, I will just say it. If I am upset, I will let you know. What is the point of not saying how you truly feel? Why play games with others? Quit avoiding and just deal with it!

Hope everyone has a wonderful weekend!

Sarah

Mae.

2011-08-10T21:12:00.001-05:00

I remember the red nails, the gold keds and the little white dogs. She had enough clothes that she didn't have to wear the same outfit twice in 18 months. She convinced me that because I am named after her that I would give the best back rubs. She could drink her weight in margaritas. She told crude jokes and cursed.

My cool Aunt Mae. The crazy lady that I was named after--Ali Mae.

I kept pushing back all of my emotions to be dealt with at a later date and the time has arrived. I wish that I had spent more time with her in her last months, but I am unbelievably thankful for the time I was able to spend with her.

Mae sneakily gave me some money for my birthday. She would rave about my food even when I KNEW it didn't taste that great. She helped to create my love for Diet Pepsi, Twizzlers, and soap operas. She shared her wisdom about ladies and why they do the things they do.

Mae wasn't afraid to hold back. Not afraid to be herself. I can only hope to be so brave, unique, and loving. Evie will get to know her Great-Great Aunt Mae through all the stories we share with her.

Here's to you, Ali Mae. I hope that your wardrobe is full; the salons are plentiful; and your interior design skills are being put to good use. Your Sarah Mae misses you terribly. We'll see each other again soon. Love ya, Maisy.

4th of July

2011-07-07T15:43:00.007-05:00

Happy belated birthday, America! To celebrate the signing of the Declaration of Independence, Jake, Evelyn, Rich, Laurie, and I headed up to Des Plaines to celebrate with Ginny and Devin. We started off Sunday at the Taste of Chicago where we ate some AMAZING food and got some lovely sunburns.

After we ate until we were ready to pop, we all headed back to Des Plaines to hang out Ginny and Devin's apartment and spent the remainder of the weekend there. The Des Plaines 4th of July parade was hit--we even got to see Governor Quinn.

Overall, we had a fabulous weekend spent with [part of] the McCoy clan. I'm so glad that we were able to drive to see Ginny and Devin. Enjoy the pictures and I hope you are having an amazing week!

Love,
Sarah

PS I wanted to share the sangria recipe that we used to help celebrate the weekend. Nothing like a refreshing glass of liquored-up juice to kick things off!

I took my cues from a recipes on allrecipes.com, but made some changes to fit our needs. Enjoy!

Ingredients:
2 cups seltzer water
1 bottle Moscato wine
11.5 oz apple juice concentrate
11.5 oz orange juice concentrate
1/4 cup grenadine
1/2 cup vodka
1/4 cup triple sec
1 orange, sliced into rounds
1 lemon, sliced into rounds
1 lime, sliced into rounds
Cherries to garnish

Combine all the ingredients in the order mentioned, with the exception of the seltzer water which I added last. Sangria is best served chilled...this took about 2.5 hours.

"Donde esta la bibliotecha..."

2011-07-06T14:41:00.002-05:00

I am officially finished with my training in East Peoria and will begin my baker's training at our Dirksen cafe tonght! Today I have spent my day lounging around in my PJs and watching Community. To share a wonderful part of my day, I am posting a video from Community.

I have lots of fun stuff to show you from this 4th of July of weekend...more to follow!

Workin' eight days a week.

2011-06-30T20:57:00.002-05:00

Sometimes, it does feel like it, too. I have officially completed the majority of my shift supervisor training in East Peoria! Woohoo! Let's have a party. :0) I only have three shifts left, three shifts of baker's training, and I will be back in my good ol' West White Oaks bakery-cafe.

I have really enjoyed working with this bunch of trainers! They are so knowledgeable and call me out when I take a shortcut or do something incorrectly. Considering that I spent my first week learning where everything was located in the cafe, I think I'm doing all right. I'm getting positive feedback and a lot of encouragement, which always makes a girl feel good!

You want to know how the diet is going? "Meh" is the best word to describe it. I have been doing a fair job of watching what I am eating but am findig it nearly impossibly to kick the soda to the curb. I hang my head in shame, for my only excuse is that it is my only source of caffeine outside of chocolate. I'm hoping that my return to normalcy will allow to get my habit under control.

As you might wonder (why would you wonder this?), I do eat a TON of Panera food, and I utilize Panera's website to the fullest extent! For any of you who are watching the calories or want to know about food allergens, you can check out our nutritional guide on our website. You can alo check out our Nutrition Calculator to figure out the nutritional value and calories of your meal! The Calculator is a big help to me and reminds me WHY don't eat pastries, haha.

One salad I particularly recommend to everyone is our Strawberry Poppyseed Chicken Salad. Not only does it taste amazing, but the whole salad has only 340 calories. Say what? Only 340 calories?! It's true!!

I unfortuately haven't been able to try any new recipes in the last couple of weeks, but I do have some old ones I will post in the very near future. Hope all is well in your world and that you have an absolutely wonderful Fourth of July weekend!

Much love,
Sarah

Ode to Ashley

2011-06-25T23:20:00.018-05:00

Six and a half years ago, I met a girl named Ashley through a mutual friend. It was snowing like crazy at ISU and we decided this would be an excellent opportunity to go sledding down the hill in front of Watterson Towers. At the last minute, all of our friends decided that it was too chilly to go outside, but my not my fearless friend Ashley. We ended up spending a couple of hours sledding, and the bond of friendship was sealed. Who would have thought that one night of rambunctious play would lead to such an enduring friendship?

Mrs. Ashley Scaramelli will be moving out to state soon to be with her wonderful husband, and I will miss her beautiful face. We are so unbelievably happy for Dan and Ashley to begin this new chapter of their lives together, and hope that the move goes smoothly.

Ashley, this blog is for you, to let you know how much you mean to Jake, Evelyn, and me. You and Dan mean the world to us, and we wish you nothing but the best!!!! <3

I get all choked up thinking about the many, many, many times that you have made me smile and laugh on the many occasions when I felt like I wasn't up to the task.

You always listened to my ridiculous stories that never went anywhere.

You embraced me as I am.

You laughed at my crappy jokes that made no sense.

You listened to all disgusting things that babies do, specifically my baby.

You dressed up in goofy costumes with me.

You shared my ridiculous love of all things '80s.

You believed that I could have a family and finish school.

You loved to go to concerts with me.

You were there for me on my wedding day.

And blessed me by allowing me to share yours.

Most of all, you loved to be yourself. You are an inspiration to everyone with your kindness, listening, humor, and love. Thank you for being a part of my life, Ashley. You have certainly made it better just by being in it.

No Time

2011-06-25T12:28:00.003-05:00

Unfortunately, I have been neglecting to update as much as I would like. My time is filled up with all the driving back and forth to the East Peoria bakery-cafe.

Short update: Jake loves his new job. Evelyn is "chattering on like a monkey in a tree." I love my training cafe and will be back at the Wabash location in about two weeks.

Recipes and food suggestions coming soon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And for your enjoyment, Evelyn thoughtfully picked out these pictures for you.

<3 Sarah & Evie

Where do I start? Where do I begin?

2011-06-14T16:11:00.002-05:00

Listening to some Chemical Brothers. I was looking for something inspirational to listen to while I blogged but instead settled for some of Jake's random music uploaded to iTunes...this song just repeats these two questions over and over again, so it seemed appropriate for what I am writing.

I appreciate everyone's "things that worked for me." I love suggestions! MD even went so far as to get me a free one-week pass to Fit Club, which I have yet to utilize (have no fear--I will soon!).

Part one of the getting healthy plan: exercise.

Work consists of walking, walking, and more walking, which is great, but I am going to start working out soon. I want to have fun while I'm working out, and to begin, I have made an awesome iPod workout playlist. All I need to do now is make it to the gym!

Part two of the getting healthy plan: eat less junk and work yummy healthy food into my diet.

Panera is the devil when it comes to all the sweets!!!!!!!!!!!! I have little willpower so I am working to improve that. I don't want to go cold turkey on the sweets, but I think that it is the only way I will make it out of my job without weight 300 pounds. No sweets. Sigh.

I have already limited myself to one Diet Pepsi a day. Most people wouldn't think that this would be such a struggle, but bad eating/drinking habits are hard to kick. I was able to quit smoking cold turkey, but my DP? I really need to give that up? GGGGGGGGGGGGGGAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!

Salads, yogurt, and fruit are fabulous, and I am enjoying all of them, both at work and at home. I have been looking for some new recipes. Any one have any awesome recipes they would like to share with me?

Ch-Ch-Changes

2011-06-06T18:22:00.002-05:00

"Strange fascination, fascinating me.
Changes are taking the pace I'm going through."

We are so happy to be a family. Jake and I are absolutely blessed to have such an intelligent, beautiful little girl who is THE most stubborn person we have ever met, which is saying a lot (have you met our families??). Evelyn is our entire world! And the love that I have for my husband grows every day by leaps and bounds. Just when I think that I couldn't love him any more, he surprises me with something cute, funny, or totally serious, and I find that my heart beats faster and I can't control the smile that spreads over my face.

Of course, we want what is best for our little family. Why wouldn't we? We are both in school, both working full-time jobs, and still manage to find time to be together. It is all a struggle, but it is so worth every second.

I think my biggest concern with all of this is where we will be in two years...five years...ten years? I have a degree and still can't find a job that will utilize it. While I truly love working at Panera, I don't think that it is what I would like to do with my career. Jake has been at Bergner's nearly 10 years and cannot wait to get a job in the accounting field. So where will be in 2 years? Hopefully, we will both be ending our college careers and working on adding to our family.

This line of thought has me doubting my choice in masters program. Am I going to be able to find a job? Probably. Is it going to be something I truly love or am I just taking the easy route because the program is available in Springfield and I haven't really looked into other options? The geronotology program at UIS is a wonderful program--I love the classes, but I am just not sure if this is the career path I want to take. What do I really want to do? After doing a little bit of soul searching, I have come to the conclusion that I REALLY want to work in a hospital setting, and I need my MSW in order to do this.

I've started looking into options in the area, and the closest program that I like is at UIUC. I am planning to apply to the program for the 2012-2013 year. If I am accepted, I will graduate in August 2013, which is only a couple of months after my projected graduation date for the MA in gerontology from UIS.

While we are talking about the future, I might as well mention that I have decided to lose 50 pounds. Slowly but surely, I am shedding some excess weight while working at Panera. Being on my feet all day really helps to make sure I don't gain any weight...as long as I don't eat too many of the yummy pastries.

I have always been "pleasantly plump" and came to terms with it a long time ago. Sure, I could always stand to lose a few extra pounds, but as long as I fit into clothes, it wasn't a huge deal. My husband and daughter love me no matter what shape I am or how much I weigh--they make me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world. Jake tells me I am gorgeous even on days I feel like a piece of gum off the bottom of someone's shoe, and I believe him.

So why now do I want to lose 50 pounds? I am a 24-year-old Mommy. I need to be able to keep up with my little runner and make sure that she is being taken care of. I don't have any health problems right now, but if I continue to pack it on, I could develop them. Why not be smart and change my eating and excerise habits now? I want to be the best Mommy possible, in every way, shape, and form. If Evelyn sees me being active and eating well, she will follow suit.

Jake tells me I don't need to lose any weight because I am beautiful the way I am. He has no idea how much I appreciate his words! Now I am going to do this for me, for Sarah, for Mommy.

I want to set reasonable goals for myself so I don't lose hope, so I am open for suggestions on weight goal loss and exercise goals. If you have anything that worked for you, please share! I also want to be able to use some healthier recipes and will be posting some that we use--please also feel free to share any recipes that you like.

I don't have a huge following on my blog, but I want to write about my goals, recipes, and life changes on here so that I am able to keep myself accountable. Will you help me? I hope so. Thank you for your support. Have a WONDERFUL week, everyone!

Love,
Sarah

Easter and More

2011-05-01T19:24:00.006-05:00

Happy May Day, everyone!

Since I last posted, we have done quite a few things! Easter weekend was busy, busy, busy!!!! On Friday night, I went to the Cardinals v. Reds game at Busch Stadium with a friend Anna, sister Jessie, brother-in-law Will and the majority of the McCoy clan. Upon arrival at Busch, the tornado sirens went off and we took shelter in the staircase for a long while...we stayed for the entire game and left the stadium around 1:20am.

Me & Jessie

Jake and I both had the whole weekend off, so we were able to spend it with the McCoy family since Jake's sisters and their significant others drove from out-of-town. Sunday morning we went to church with Dad and Patty then headed over to Jacksonville to enjoy our Easter meal and egg hunt with Evelyn.

Chris, Jessie, Rich, Laurie, Devin, Ginny, Jake, Me & Evelyn

Yesterday we went to Jaime's bridal shower. We were able to play a couple of games before Evelyn reminded me that it was her naptime and had to go home. We are so happy for Jesse, Jaime, and Dayton! They are such a sweet little family, and we owe a lot to Jaime. Jake and I met at Jaime's house over three and half years ago!

Today Evelyn and I participated in the MS Walk in Washington Park. After sampling all the goodies (popcorn, cotton candy, hot dogs, slushies, and bagels), we made sure to pet all of the many dogs that participated in the walk with us. I will make sure to post pictures of the event as soon as I have some!

The Good and Bad of Being Two

2011-04-19T18:47:00.002-05:00

Terrible Twos. Really? Sometimes I think, Geeze, this is what everyone was talking about, and then other times it's, Uh, this isn't so bad, guys. We have had several of these moments in the last couple of days and I thought I would share.

Yesterday I was busy putting the clean dishes away and Evie decided she wanted to color and told me as much. I got out her coloring books and crayons so she could color and continued to put away the clean dishes. When I finished, I turned around to find her drawing with a dry erase marker on our wall. Whoops. So now we have black marker on our wall, which I have yet to scrub off (or probably will just paint over).

Later in the evening I stepped on one of Evie's "Little People" and said, "OOOOOWWWW!" rather loudly.
Evie asks, "You okay, Mommy?"
I replied, "I'm fine, baby."
Evie walks over to me and pulls my hand to get me down to her level. She kisses me and says, "All better now!"

While playing with Daddy last night before bed, Evie managed to hit Daddy pretty hard. We had to explain to her that hitting is not nice and that we can play but gently. She FINALLY apologized and gave Daddy a hug...after several prompts and reminders.

Before leaving for school this morning, I told Evie to go say goodbye to Daddy. She runs up to him, hugs him, and says, "Yuh you," which translates to "I love you," without being prompted.

Tonight I was checking Facebook and Evelyn points to the laptop and says, "Stop it, Mommy." I asked what she was talking about and she replies with, "Mommy, don't touch. Stop it." She knows that she is not supposed to touch our computer and she thought she would be sassy enough to remind me.

She learns soooooo much at such a fast pace. Evie picks up on everything we say and do; sometimes we don't even realize it. I think the worst part of the "twos" is that her moods fluctuate so much--I know that we will get past this eventually. And I will let everyone know that my daughter is the most stubborn person that I have met. More than any of our relatives, more than Jake and I, and if any of you know our families, you would say that is quite an achievment, haha.

I wouldn't change my ornery little girl for the world!

"Orange you gonna squeeze me 'neath the mellow yellow moon..."

2011-04-17T11:18:00.003-05:00

I began to write a blog entry yesterday but was unable to finish as my hungry little monster was demanding that I feed her at 11:30am even though we had a very late breakfast at 10:30am. What Baby wants, Baby gets. :0)

The two of us had a very lazy Sunday while Daddy was hard at work. We watched several of my old Disney Sing-A-Long VHS tapes that I found at my mom's house. Needless to say my Disney-obsessed 2-year-old found these amazing and we had to watch all of them before taking a nap and going for a walk in the neighborhood. I have included a couple of my favorite songs from the movies, one being a tribute to Bing Crosby and one a song from Oliver and Company.

"Blue for You"

"Good Company"

Jake has a big test and a project due this week so he has been staying in the last couple of weeks and making several trips to the library to get things done for school. We will both be done with classes for this semester within a few weeks, and believe me we are both ready for a break. Classes for the summer begin the first week of June so we will have a few weeks of non-school fun.

I have had a really rough week or so at work. We have been short-handed and this makes everything so stressful. I try to think positively because I know that my day goes about 90% as I think it will--as long as I have a good attitude, I will have a good day. While this isn't always the case due to unforeseen happenings, I know that if I have a bad attitude my day will be rough and I will have a great day if I remain upbeat. The last couple of days I have worked have been inifinitely better due to the way I see my day.

This morning Evie, Jake, and I were all feeling sickly. Unfortunately, Jake had to continue to study, so he wasn't able to take the amazing 4-hour nap that Evie and I did. We needed it, that's for sure!

Our little family has been blessed to have such wonderful friends! I have been able to make some friends through my job at Panera, and I am unbelievably thankful that I have been able to connect with them. A couple of weeks ago Evie and I spent some time with Jax and Gabriel at Washington Park and then went to their house for some playtime and cupcakes. Last week we visited Mieke and Eliana at their farm outside Sherman, where Evie got to feed chickens and goldfish for the first time! She and Eliano enjoyed throwing chickenfeed through the wires. :0) Mommy also was able to hang out with an old roommate, Rachel R., on Saturday and we enjoyed catching up and DANCING.

Summer is near and I cannot wait! We go for walks as often as possible, play in the park, and love to bask in one another's company. We are excited to spend more time outdoors with our new friends, as well as our old friends, and continue to see and learn all kinds of new things. Hope to see all of you soon!

"Sweet dreams be yours, dear, if dreams they be..."

2011-03-24T19:12:00.003-05:00

..."Sweet dreams to carry you close to me. I wish I may and I wish they might. Oh, goodnight, my love, goodnight."

Evelyn are having a "girls' night" tonight because Jake is closing at Bergner's. We ate some pulled pork, which Evie didn't think was that great (What does she know? She's only 2!), and now we are watching Meredith Wilson's The Music Man. She gets to giggling when Eulalie Machkechnie Shinn enters into a scene, and my favorite parts include the Buffalo Bills quartet. I think the "Shipoopi" dance is one my favorite dance scenes!

While the movie is a blast to watch, it also shows us that love can bring out the very best in all of us.

Every time I look at Evie I marvel at how big she is getting so quickly. Before I know it, she will be speaking in full sentences and learning to tie her shoes! She is talking like crazy, though I can only understand a little more than half of what she is saying. If I don't understand what she is saying, she will sign it or point so that Mommy can have a better understanding.

Jake has class at night during the week, and while I miss him terribly, I also secretly like that he isn't home so that I can have my "little bit" all to myself. Evie and I eat dinner, color and read, and then wind down with a good black-and-white movie or a Disney cartoon. We have this awesome routine and it will only get better as the weather gets warmer--park time!

The best part of my day is snuggling with Evelyn as we wrap up the evening. Hopefully, she will continue to be a snuggler. One thing is for sure: I will cherish this alone time with Evelyn forever.

Have a good night, everybody!

"Rejoice with your family in the beautiful land of life!" -Albert Einstein

2011-03-10T13:24:00.004-06:00

This week has been a good one! Jake is currently on his spring break at Lincoln Land. Evie and I have enjoyed having Daddy at home this week.

I began to read The Complete Sherlock Holmes and am enjoying it so far! There is a preface going into great detail about the author, relating how he came to write the Sherlock Holmes series.

I made baked spaghetti for the first time this week, and it was a major hit with both baby and husband. Here are a couple of pictures for your enjoyment!

March-y Mush

2011-03-05T15:42:00.003-06:00

Hello, all! Every time I think to write a blog something comes up. I am fully taking advantage of naptime right now in order to update.

Jake is taking 6 hours at Lincoln Land this semester and is enjoying his classes. He is taking a literature class and he has read Emma, To Kill a Mockingbird, and On the Road so far...Emma definitely ranked as his least favorite.

Evie is growing, growing, growing. She is now approx. 40" tall and weighs around 37 pounds. She is better able to articulate herself, which we are all loving. Life with a 2-year-old is much easier when we can understand her wants and needs.

The biggest thing going on right now with Evie is making sure we get to bed on time and the beginning of potty training! She is starting to tell us when she needs to use the restroom and "potty treats," of course, do provide an incentive. Her favorite treat is Sweetart jellybeans!

I really like working at Panera because I work a different station almost every day, and then the customers and employees both keep me on my toes. I like the repition of it all, the stability. Soon I will begin my shift supervisor training--I find out this week the exact start date, and I am to be trained at the East Peoria store. While this new position secures my hours at the store, it does mean I will be driving over an hour to work each way. Thankfully, the training only lasts for three weeks, and then I will be back at the store on Wabash.

School is school. It takes a lot of time to read all of my materials but I am learning, which is the important thing. I can't wait to take another gerontology class and dive into the stuff I am really passionate about!

And to move onto my mushy schtuff. I love our lives. I tell Jake every day, whether he is tired of hearing it or not, that I LOVE LOVE LOVE our lives. Sure, we aren't where we would like to be in our careers, but that doesn't matter. As I said on Facebook earlier this week, "If we had any more love in this teeny tiny apartment, it might just burst."

We are so absolutely crazy about one another and our little girl. The love I have for my husband deepens every day, and I can never get enough of my little Evelyn. She is growing so quickly and I don't want to miss a second of it. She is beautiful, intelligent, spunky...a bit of a hellion, maybe, but 100% mine and I adore her (in case you couldn't tell).

I am loved by the two people I love most and that, my friends, is the most amazing feeling in the world. Have a wonderful weekend, everyone!

PS Please feel free to check out the family portraits we had taken this week. Some of them turned out wonderfully!

Photo Highlights

2011-03-04T15:33:00.006-06:00

I don't really feel like writing a blog today so instead I am opting to put some pictures up, highlighting the last six months.

2011 Much?

2011-02-21T19:59:00.002-06:00

So I have failed at updating our journal regularly. We have become so wrapped up in our daily routine that there seems to be little room for anything else.

I have been making updates on Facebook with our photos and videos and will soon do so with this journal as well. How soon, I'm not sure.

Just know that we are still alive and life is good. I never thought that I could love two people as much as I love Evelyn and Jake. <3

Wedding

2010-08-31T20:15:00.004-05:00

Our wedding has come and gone. As of Saturday, August 28, 2010, I became Sarah Mae McCoy. We had beautiful weather for our outdoor ceremony and wonderful friends and family to hear our vows to one another. We enjoyed every minute of the day as it flew by.

At this moment, we are currently in our hotel room in Key West, Florida on our honeymoon. We are having an absolutely wonderful time. It's nice to be spending time alone with one another but we are both missing Evelyn terribly.

Thank you to every one who was a part of our special day. We are truly blessed to have so many wonderful people in our life.

Stubborn Girl

2010-08-20T10:20:00.005-05:00

My beautiful little girl is just so stubborn, as I'm sure you can tell in these two pictures. The first one is from April and then the second one if from the Sweet Corn Festival in July.

Evelyn has my strong will and temperament, so naturally she has no problem telling me when she doesn't want to do something. But thankfully, I have the constitution to stand up to her.

It's amazing how much she reminds me of myself. While I think she resembles Jake more physcially (with the exception of her eyes and eyebrows) than myself, her mannerisms and attitude scream "Sarah!" She snores; she maintains an impish grin while doing something mischievious; and she walks pigeon-toed.

And now that you have that wonderful image of me in your head, I say, "Have a wonderful weekend, folks."

Because we're going to the chapel and we're...

2010-08-13T15:44:00.003-05:00

...GONNA GET MARRIED!

Jake and I have a little over two weeks before the big day, and we are just so unbelievably excited. Nearly everyone we invited is coming, which is just amazing, and we are so happy to be spending the big day with everyone we care about.

I was just thinking last night that so much has happened within the nearly three years we have been together. While certain events in our life may not have occurred in the order we originally planned, I wouldn't trade a moment of it. We have gone through the first pregnancy and are surviving our first toddler...we have a nice little apartment that is our own little corner of the world.

And best of all we have one another. Every night I thank God for having such a wonderful little family. I also thank Him for the support we have received from our loving family and friends. What an awesome life we have!

Successful Move

2010-07-13T15:34:00.006-05:00

We had a successful move, as the title might indicate. Saturday was very hectic! We didn't have as much stuff as we originally thought, so it went pretty smoothly. There are a few things that the McCoys will be bringing over this week to complete our piles in the living room. :)

We left our couch at the McCoys because knew it would not make it down the stairs to the new apartment, so we are without a place to rest our rears in the living room, but we will get one soon enough. While all the boxes are unpacked, we still have piles of things everywhere. Slowly but surely we are getting everything organized and put in its proper place. Of course, we finished Evie's room first so she would be comfortable, and she seems to be adjusting pretty well. You can definitely tell she misses her Grammy and Papa.

I promise to post some pictures of the apartment once we got most everything put away.

For your entertainment, I have posted some of our engagement photos that were taken at the beginning of August. They were all taken at Dad's farm by Adam Nudo, and he did a wonderful job! If you'd like to see the rest of the pictures, you can view them on my Photobucket.

Mommy and Baby

2010-06-28T10:22:00.003-05:00

Evie was bit on the cheek almost two weeks ago, and you can easily see it in this picture.

(Left to right, rear) Chris, Jessie, Rich, Aunt Fran, Laurie (left to right, front) Jake, Evie, Ginny, and Sarah

Hello again! Here is a couple of pictures from Relay for Life last weekend (thank you, Ginny).

Our apartment search was short. Our lease begins July 1st at an apartment building off Governor, across from Trinity Lutheran. We are very excited about it! We are planning to paint this weekend and move our stuff slowly. We honestly didn't think we would be moving this quickly, so we haven't really packed a lot.

Jake's class is going really well. His homework and work have been keeping him busy, which means I get to spend a lot of one-on-one time with Evelyn. She is beginning to talk more and more. Sunday morning at breakfast she was pointing at me and saying, "Mommy," then pointing at herself and saying, "Baby." The best part is that she is also learning some sign language, so she makes the sign for baby when she says "baby." I can't believe how quickly she is growing!

"Keep smiling...it makes people wonder what you are up to."

2010-06-23T11:10:00.005-05:00

A big thank you to everyone who was able to come to our bridal shower this past Saturday. We had a really great time! Ashley (Maid of Honor) and Jessie (Bridesmaid) did a wonderful job. :)

This week has been very busy so far. Jake and I began our apartment search in Springfield. We aren't too picky. We need a 2-bedroom in an area we feel safe in, and we also wanted it to be either in central Springfield (close to both our jobs) or on the south side (close to campus). There is a lot of variety in Springfield, so I have made I don't know how many appointments to see places this week. Hopefully, we will find what we are looking for.

My big task this week besides looking at apartments is to start sorting through all of Evelyn's clothes. They are in tupperware containers in the attic, and I've decided I will only keep a select few since we will be cramped for space. And let's be honest--Baby #2 will get all new clothes whether #2 is a girl or not. If you know anyone that needs infant girl clothes, please let me know.

Hope this Wednesday is finding each of you well. Have a wonderful rest of the week!

Sarah is Happy

2010-06-14T15:09:00.004-05:00

Evie and I went to get our pictures taken as a surprise for Father's Day (I can post them because Jake doesn't read my blog). If you would like to see the rest of them, please feel free to check out my Photobucket. I will have the remainder of them posted soon.

Jake started his classes last week and really seems to be enjoying them. I am so proud of him! Because he has night class, I have been able to spend more one-on-one time with Evelyn, and I absolutely love it. She has kept us very busy...she looooooves to flip through books and put together puzzles. She is truly changing every day, and she is no longer the baby with the chunky monkey legs.

I hardly know what to do with myself now that I no longer have classes, so I have been reading quite a bit. I am almost half-way finished with the book I started on Friday. I have started a list of books I would like to finish over the summer before the wedding. Any suggestions?

The bridal shower is this Saturday, June 19th, and I am delighted to see all of my family. It's been a while since I have seen them all together, so it will be a lot of fun. Relay for Life is also the night of June 19th. So far, our team has raised 78% of our goal and I myself have raised 40% of my goal. Sunday is Father's Day. Jake requested French toast and bacon, which I thought would be easy enough to accomplish.

I am really looking forward to not only this weekend but the remainder of the summer. I plan to swim, take Evie to the zoo, and spend plenty of time with friends and family in addition to finishing my reading list. The summer will end the best way possible--marrying the man I love. I am one blessed woman, let me tell you. :)

Have a wonderful week, everyone!

PS I forgot to mention one thing...Evie has figured out how to pick her nose. She will be one classy lady!

The American Cancer Society - Relay for Life

2010-05-28T10:15:00.001-05:00

The McCoys and I will be participating in the 2010 Sangamon County Relay for Life on June 19th and we need your support!

Please help us make our goal this year. If you are interested in donating, please go to my personal page and make a small donation.

Thank you!

May showers bring...

2010-05-27T15:34:00.003-05:00

We have had such a torrential downpour the last few days! The warm weather today was more encouraging. :)

May is coming to an end very quickly! I graduated May 15th from UIS (HOORAY!), and now I am doing more and more wedding stuff.

The last couple of weeks I have been fortunate enough to spend some time with Mom and pulls the finals bits and pieces together. All the bridesmaids have their dresses, I had a fitting, and now we're working on decorations for the reception.

Jake will be starting classes at LLCC in two weeks, and he seems to be pretty excited about it all.

Evie is doing wonderfully, as always. We are running into the problem of biting. I know everyone says it's just a phase, but it worries me some. She will go a week without biting anyone and then the next week she will bite three kids four days in a row. Secretly, I think that she is a bit of a bully (you can do that when you're bigger than all the other kids).

My job search for September has begun. I've already applied at three places and hoping that something will pan out in the near future.

March

2010-03-09T19:00:00.002-06:00

You know what? I don't feel all that bad about not posting because I know my only loyal reader is my sister Jessie and I talk to her about three times a week. :)

My social work field class is embarking on a blog, so I am updating now for postarity's (sp?) sake.

Evelyn is now running, and I mean running. Not only does she try to pull the plugs out of the sockets, but she also loves to:

pull her shirt up so we can see her belly button
smile demurely when she is doing something wrong
run around the room in circles
take all her toys out of the crate then sit in it
bite
hit Mommy when I'm not paying attention to her
throw her food on the floor for Sammy the pug and Izzy the bulldog when she is no longer hungry
share Wheat Thins with Sammy while sitting on the living room floor (ick!)
watch sports of Daddy
pout when I don't let her have her way
high five
wave goodbye

The worst part of about being a mommy and working is that I don't get to spend as much time with Evelyn as I would like. I've been working around 40 hours a week and taking 19 credit hours at UIS, which is starting to take its toll. I would love to be making more money, which would require me to work on the weekends, but I am definitely not willing to sacrifice what little time I spend with my daughter on the weekends.

Work at AARP has really picked up. Because the legislators are in session, our State Legislative Committee volunteers come to Springfield and I get to help with the hotel bookings, reminders, and food ordering. Because I am not allowed to do anything that would affect legislation through my AmeriCorps position, I am doing things that my coworkers don't have time to do--build a website, work on fact sheets, filling out sponsorship forms, and writing rejection letters to sponorship requests. Do I enjoy it? Well, yes, I do. I think that once I am finished with this semester, I will be better able to handle the work load.

****SPOILER ALERT****
Jacob M. McCoy has decided to go back to school! I can't speak for him, but I am most definitely excited for him, not to mention super proud. After discovering none of his credits from Western were going to transfer, he decided to start from scratch at Lincoln Land CC. He is planning on taking a couple of classes this summer to begin with.

Wedding plans? Well, I am kind of tired of talking about it, but I will tell you anyway! :) Jake and I will be getting married at the Washington Park Gazebo at 3:30pm on Saturday, August 28, 2010. Once we take pictures in the Rose Garden, we will then go the reception at the Brass Rail, which is located at the Howard Johnson near the airport. Fulgenzi's Trattoria is doing the catering and A Dyanim Sound is doing the DJing. Adam Nudo is our photographer. I believe that's about it...we will work on the smaller things her in a little bit.

I just finished a midterm and need to study for another, so that is it for now! I hope that everyone reading is doing well and I look forward to hearing from you.

Happy 2010!

2010-01-06T14:31:00.003-06:00

I really feel bad for not updating...we got so busy it's hard to stop long enough to write. November was a good month. Dad celebrated his 57th birthday and Thanksgiving was absolutely delicious. We were able to celebrate with both the Spenglers and the McCoys.

Jake's mom Laurie directed A Christmas Story for the Jacksonville Theater Guild in early December. The show was really cute and everyone enjoyed themselves. Finals went well for me this semester...I did a lot better than expected and made the Dean's list for the fourth semester in a row, which will look great on my grad school applications!

Christmas arrived much sooner than expected. I did all my shopping fairly early so there was no scrambling Christmas Eve trying to find a present. Evie thoroughly enjoyed chewing on all the wrapping paper from her presents. She walked around and took paper from everyone just to shove it in her mouth. Oh, did I mention that Evie is walking now? Like a cowboy, all bowlegged, but it is pretty darn cute.

Evelyn turned 1-year-old on December 29, and we celebrated at Los Rancheros with a sizable crowd. Everyone had a great time--including Evie! We ate lots of food and enjoyed some cake. Unfortunately, Evie was so tired by the time everyone had finished their food that she was barely awake for us to sing "Happy Birthday."

New Years' Eve was a lot of fun. Jake and I hosted a small gathering of his buddies for some dinner, TV, and laughs. My favorite part of the day was while I was getting up to get ready to work Jake proposed to me. I didn't cry like I thought I was going to, but I really haven't stopped smiling since.

The Holiday Season was slightly stressful because of all the running around, but I had a great time. 2009 proved to be my best year yet. I am blessed to have such great friends, a loving family, an amazing fiancee, and a beautiful daughter.

October

2009-10-26T09:08:00.002-05:00

October is coming to end, which saddens me a little because it is one of my favorite months. I love all the colorful foilage, the sweaters and hoodies, and the hot drinks that make you feel cozy.

Jake and I just celebrated our two year anniversary on Saturday. I met Jake at Olive Garden after he got off work (big night out!). We went shopping for some work clothes and I definitely walked out of Old Navy with more items than he did. After shopping, we went to the movie theatre and saw The Invention of Lying, which wasn't quite what we expected but nonetheless funny in some parts.

Yesterday we went to Grandma's house for Aunt Irene's birthday. It was really nice to see all the family. Evelyn is the center of attention, though she wasn't too keen on it. She was tired all day so the majority of the time she was zoning out or chomping on her cereal puffs. :) She started to warm up to everyone by the time we were leaving (and after her hour nap). After we got home, I wasn't feeling all that well but it passed.

Let's see what else happened this month...

I started working with Americorps through AARP. So far it hasn't been too exciting, but I really do enjoy it. I feel comfortable with the people I work with and want to continue to work hard there. My job lasts through the end of August, so I will hopefully be able to find a job for September.

I am also working on my graduate school applications. I keep thinking that I don't want to go straight through to get my masters but I feel that it's very important I don't lose momentum. The sooner I start the sooner I will be able to finish.

Jake is still doing well at work. The Christmas season for the retail world will begin on Sunday, November 1. I have a feeling that he is dreading it a little bit, but he'll handle it as wonderfully as he does everything else. It will be his first Christmas he won't be a regular associate, which he is extremely excited about.

And Evie! I know I am biased but she is the most perfect baby. She gets into everything and crawls around like a little Army man. She is still putting everything into her mouth, and she is beggining to stand for a few seconds on her own. Evelyn will be walking before we know it! I am both excited and dreading this because it will be even harder to keep up with my little monkey.

I have a million pictures I need to post, and I am going to start using Photobucket so everyone can see the pictures. Building Blocks will be having their Halloween parade on Friday, so I am going to skip work for a couple of hours so I can take pictures of Evie in her Halloween costume (she will be a ladybug). I will make sure to post those as well!

I hope everyone is having a fabulous month and I will talk to you soon.

September

2009-09-23T16:29:00.003-05:00

Hello, all! The last month has been full of adventure. Evie made her first trek to Wisconsin. We stayed at Christmas Mountain Village in cabin and did some shopping and hit the tourist spots. The pictures are from Jessie's camera (thanks, Jessie!).

Evie and I have had lunch with Grandma Frannie a couple of times, which is always a blast. We love to get out of the house and Grandma likes to show off her two girls.

On the down side, we have had a great deal of trouble with our landlord. Fortunately, I know my rights as a renter and I'm taking care of things. I doubt that we'll be living in Grandview much longer.

Back to the good news! I was lucky enough to get a position through Americorps here in Springfield. I have to go through the training and then will start within the next couple of weeks (after I read the very long manual).

Jake is on his way to Boston right now. I bought him plane tickets so he and his buddy Ben could go see their friend Chris who is attending Boston University. He's going to have a fun weekend as one of the three amigos!!

Evelyn will be 9-months-old on Sept. 29, which is also Jake's parents' (Rich and Laurie) 30th wedding anniversary. Jake will turn 29 on Sept. 30...and then it will be October!

Eight-Months-Old

2009-08-31T16:22:00.003-05:00

A couple of weeks ago, Evelyn was just figuring out how to crawl around, and now she has become a pro. The other day I left the front door open to pack some things in my car, and when I was walking up the sidewalk to the door, here was Evelyn poking her smiling face out the door.

Last week she figured out how to pull herself up and stand next to the coffee table. Now she is getting up and down, standing in her play pen, moving her way around the coffee table with minimal effort.

The girl is fearless! She doesn't cry when she falls or bumps her head on something. And she definitely has an attitude about being put in her play pen. Now that she is mobile she wants to be able to move at her own pace, crawling and hobbling around where she desires.

And one other thing I should mention is that I have never seen a baby smile as much as Evie does. Always has a smile for Mommy. :)

We went to Chicago this weekend and stayed with Jessie and Will. Jake's mom got the whole McCoy clan tickets to see Tony Bennett at Rivinia Saturday night for her birthday present. The concert was a blast, and thankfully, Aunt Jessie watched the baby while we adults enjoyed a little Tony. I must say that I am very glad I don't live in an urban area--I was so furious after riding in the car for 1.5 hours for 45 miles. I think it made appreciate Springfield a little more.

Mid-August

2009-08-18T08:59:00.002-05:00

So much has happened with Little McCoy!!!

Within the last week, Evie has started to crawl and pull herself up. Every time I hold her, she wants to climb me like a tree. We had to baby proof the living room and are thinking about putting up the baby gates because if she sees something she wants she goes for it! (That includes Sammy's chew toys.)

Evie is now up to approximately 21 pounds and continues to grow like a weed. Her happy disposition makes her even more endearing to everyone she meets. I can't tell you how many times people comment on her toothless grin. :)

In other news, ISF started last Friday, and we haven't been able to go since both Jake and I have been working our butts off. We made it the night of the Twilight Parade and ate some yummy fried food but had to leave early because it was past Evie's bedtime and she got a little cranky.

One of my best friends from high school is getting married Saturday, August 22. I am one of Niki's bridesmaids...I'm so excited for her. It should be a lot of fun. I love weddings!!!!!

UIS starts back up on Monday! I am both excited for and tired of school. This will be my fifth year in college, which is a lot longer than some of my friends, but at least I can say this will be my last year of undergrad.

Jake is doing great with the Manager in Training positiion at Bergner's. Every time I go into the store all the women in the men's department tell me what a wonderful guy he is and how he really deserves the position. It makes me really happy to see his supportive work network.

I believe that is all the news I have for now. We'll be talking to you again soon!

Evelyn sits up!

2009-07-28T09:26:00.002-05:00

Evie has been sitting up for a little bit but leaned forward to keep her balance. Now she is sitting up straight entirely by herself! You can just tell how proud she is of herself. (Thanks to Jessie, I have a few of pictures of her.)

July

2009-07-16T12:27:00.003-05:00

Well, it is mid-July already!

Evelyn had her 6 month check-up at the beginning of the month (yes, Evelyn is now 6 months!!!), and she weighed 19 lbs 4 oz and was 29.5 inches long. My guess now is that she has surpassed the 20 lb marker...it feels like she weighs a lot more than that when she is in her carrier at least.

I have been working my tuckus off at Cracker Barrel and finishing up my two summer classes. I have only two more semester, believe it or not, and I am interviewing for two different internships for my fieldwork within the next couple of weeks. Things are coming together very nicely. I have also been volunteering at AARP a couple mornings a week, which keeps me on my toes.

Jake started in his manager in training position last week, and he seems to be enjoying it so far. I know his Manager on Duty shifts have been a little stressful because he's new to it, but it is getting easier for him.

In other news, my grandmother Francine Roberta Lewis turner 90-years-old this past weekend! Can you believe it? Who would think a birthday could be such an accomplishment? I hope the longevity passes down the hereditary line. Her party was very nice, and I managed to convince her to brings some of her WAC albums and family pictures so everyone could enjoy. The wonderful thing about Grandma is that she is always thinking of other people, and I hope that rubs off on Evelyn when she gets a little older. :)

Jake's best friend Ben and my best friend Ashley both had birthdays within the last week as well, so we will be helping celebrate within in the next week. I can't wait to see the two of them!

Pink Eye Alert

2009-06-15T15:53:00.002-05:00

I was at work last Monday night; the manager made me go home early because I thought I might have pink eye. Evelyn had all the symptoms but the actual red eyes, but I had the doctor call us in some eye drops to make the other stuff go away. I stayed home all week with Evie to make sure none of the other daycare babies got pink eye. We were successful (as far as we know) in not getting anyone else sick.

Jake has had a few days off recently so we have been able to spend some time together. We have spent a lot of time in front of the tube, watching HBO. Sammy, Jake's pug, has come to live with us, and he enjoys watching TV with his one good eye. It's so amusing when I come home from work to find my little family on the couch watching their Cardinals.

There are so many things coming up on our calendar. My friend Niki is having her bridal shower this weekend; Jake's parents and youngest sister are coming home from their Rome-Paris trip tomorrow; and Jake's first Father's Day is Sunday. The two biggest celebrations coming up is Evelyn's 6 month birthday June 29 and Grandma's 90 birthday July 11. It's going to be a fun month!

June

2009-06-04T13:32:00.002-05:00

Hello, everyone!

Evelyn got over her first illness last week, a sinus infection. You don't really realize the disgusting things you'll have to do in motherhood until you need to do them.

At her last appointment, Evie weighed 17 lbs 4 oz and was 27 inches long. She has figured out to get onto her hands and knees, but instead of crawling, dives head first into the carpet, which seems to deter from trying to crawl. Her toes are an absolute fascination to her and anything that is small enough to go into her mouth does. It is absolutely amazing how quickly she is changing...

I started working at Cracker Barrel more, and Evie has started day care. She seems to like it; she has made buddies with another baby girl named Rebecca who is a month older than she is. Oh, and the most important thing I forgot to mention--her two bottom front teeth are coming in! She gets as irritable as her mommy. :)

I am taking two classes this summer at UIS, slowly chipping away at my degree. Only two more semesters after this summer, then straight to my MSW. At least, I hope. In other news, one of Jake's buddies from high school is home from Boston, so we are extremely excited to see him this weekend. As soon as I figure out the software for my new camera, I will be able to post a million pictures of Evie.

April

2009-04-21T16:03:00.002-05:00

Evelyn is fantastic! Sorry for the delay in blogs.

Since our last post, Evelyn had a sonogram done of both her hips to see if anything was wrong (they were loose at her last appointment), but everything is looking great. She has begun to mumble and smile quite a bit. She giggles when I blow raspberries on her stomach and have her "flying" through the air.

The McCoy-Lewis clan has moved to Grandview within the last week. We love our tiny little house! It has an enormous big yard (in comparison to the size of the house) and a two-car garage. We have done plenty of yardwork already...I'm excited to plant some tomatoes, peppers, and flowers. It's starting to feel like home!

10 Weeks Old

2009-03-12T18:03:00.002-05:00

Our appointment at St. John's last Friday went well. She had two ultrasounds done on both hips and everything looks normal!

Evie is doing great. I had her on the floor this afternoon and she is lifting her head up and looking around. She keeps kicking her feet out like she wants to go somewhere--she'll figure out how to crawl soon enough. Her smiles are becoming bigger and more frequent. She has gotten so long that she is just about too long for 3-6 month clothes.

Jake and I are doing well, too. Work is normal for both of us and classes are going well. My spring break is this upcoming week and Jessie D.'s birthday is on Monday so she is coming home this weekend. I'm sre Aunt Jessie and Uncle Will will be happy to see little Evie.

Two Month Dr. Appt.

2009-03-05T21:24:00.002-06:00

We had Evelyn's two-month appointment on Monday and she is a record grower! She weighed 13 lbs 4 oz and was 24.75 inches long (she weighed 11 lbs 1 oz and was 23 inches long four weeks ago). She took a couple of shot in her chunky thighs and hardly cried at all.

The only irregularity is her left hip seems to be a little loose, though it is less loose than when she was born. I'll have to let you know how her ultrasound goes tomorrow.

Oh, Lord--we have a girl!

2009-02-21T22:11:00.004-06:00

I must apologize ten million times for the lateness of this post. Our baby girl, Evelyn Rose McCoy, was born Dec. 29 at 7:56pm weighing in at 8 lbs 11 oz and was 21.5 inches in length. She had almost a full head of black hair and the chubbiest little cheeks.

Needless to say, Jake and I could never be so in love as we are with our baby girl. Evie is absolutely amazing. Of course, the first few nights at home were a little terrifying, but once we moved past that, we were alright. For the most part, Evie now sleeps through the night, only waking up to eat two or three times.

Just this week, she has started to smile and giggle. I never thought I could get so much joy out of looking at someone. Since the day she was born, she has been lifting up her head, and now she is even rolling onto her stomach. She's our Super Baby! Super strong, that is.

I never thought I could love someone so much. Jake and I keep telling each other how lucky we are to have such a wonderful blessing in our lives. I don't know what I did to deserve her, but I will take it! :)

With that being said, I will be posting in here at least once a week. We didn't get the internet until last week so it's been a little difficult to post anything. I feel like we were living in the dark ages (haha, just kidding!). I want to thank everyone that has posted comments and sent me emails about the baby. Your support has meant the world to us.

We love you!

38 Weeks

2008-12-18T09:09:00.003-06:00

Monday night I thought my water had broken, so Jake and I went to the hospital to get it checked out. The car was all packed and ready to go as Jake held my hand super-tightly to make sure I didn't slip on the stairs or sidewalk. As you must have guessed, my water had not broken yet so we came home after being at Memorial for over two hours. To console my disappointment, we stopped to get milkshakes.

Jake says he now feels way more prepared to deal with the actual birth. He was ghost-white and holding my hand so tightly I thought he might squeeze it off while we were at the hospital. "Now that I know what we need to do, I feel much more comfortable."

I had another doctor's appointment yesterday, and I am now dilated to 3 cm. We're making some slow progress, but at least it's progress. There is a pool here at AARP--they've got days picked all the way up to Christmas Eve. I guess we'll just have to wait and see who is right.

One more thing: I've really been blessed to have such wonderful friends and family to support me. None of you will ever know how much we appreciate all the kind words of encouragement, enthusiasm, and well wishes. And I don't want to forget Jake--I am forever grateful to have him in my life. I know the whole concept of having a child can be so terrifying if you allow it be and he has been nothing but 100% supportive and loving these nine months.

37 Weeks

2008-12-11T10:13:00.002-06:00

Apparently, the baby got cold feet--I'm still only dilated to 2.5 cm.

Bergner's has their extended hours in place now, so as you can imagine, Jake is ready to have the Christmas season over with. I am done working at Cracker Barrel until February or so; school is finished (2 A's and 1 A+); and right now I am only working at AARP Tuesday-Thursday.

I'm sorry we don't have anything more exciting to talk about, but we will soon enough. We are just trying to enjoy the remainder of our time alone together.

Have a good rest of the week, everyone!

Week 36

2008-12-04T09:25:00.002-06:00

My doctor's appointment yesterday went very well. Nothing too exciting happened. I have dilated up to 2.5 cm, so apparently, we still have some time. How much longer is the mystery, and now we just play the waiting game.

Again, if I am dilated up to 5 cm at the next appointment, I will be induced, but I think that Baby will just come when he or she feels like it.

Dr's Last Week

2008-12-02T10:46:00.002-06:00

I'm sorry I didn't get around to posting any information about my doctor's appointment last week.

So here was the verdict: I was 2 cm dilated already on Wednesday. Dr. Beal will check me again tomorrow afternoon to see if there has been any change. If I am dilated to 5 cm, they will go ahead and induce labor tomorrow, but there is always the possibility that I will be at 2 cm for another week or so. I guess it just all depends on whether or not Baby is ready to be born.

I still think that the baby will hold off for another ten to fourteen days before coming. If it is anything like Mom or Dad, Baby will come in his or her own sweet time and not a moment sooner.

Thanksgiving was very quick. We stayed at Jake's parents' on Wednesday night and had lunch with them on Thursday then headed over to Dad and Patty's for another round before going home to change for work. Luckily, work wasn't as bad as I thought it would be.

I'll update again either tomorrow after the appointment or on Thursday to keep you posted.

First Post

2008-11-20T15:27:00.000-06:00

Hey, everybody!

This new blog is keep everyone updated on the baby, Jake, and I. I honestly don't know how much Jake will be posting in here, but I can promise I will update once a week if not more which pictures, anecdotes, and all things Baby McCoy.

I am so excited to have this new addition in our lives, as I'm sure most of you know. Jake and I cannot wait for little Grant Festus or Evelyn Rose.

And on that note, I hope everyone is having a fantastic week. I'll write again Wednesday after my doctor appointment and am looking forward to seeing most of you at Thanksgiving!